IS YOUR CAREER THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU?
By Stephanie Goddard Davidson
Believe it or not, a house painter inspired
this article.
Recently I had a screened-in porch built onto
the back of my house. As with most construction
in the homestead, the addition seemed like a great
idea until the actual work began. I am sure
my experience was no different than any other:
promises of two weeks turning into two months;
lots of tracked in sawdust; workers calling-up
the stairs with questions the minute the clothes
hit the floor from the morning jog; and the hammeringoh,
Lord, the hammering.
ÒIs Your Career The Right One For You ?Ó
So how does all this relate to how someone knows
if they are in the right career? It relates
in that my assumption going into this period of
construction, was that the people putting the
structure up were only in the porch business as
a last resort or as a temporary measure until
returning to college. What I learned instead
is that these workers were far from resentful
high school spring-breakers, but in fact, artists.
Artists?
Yes. I know for a fact that I saw
in these workers all of the things that someone
who loves their work exhibits: eyes glazed
in creative splendor; standing back with a satisfied
appraisal at work well done; requesting feedback
when none was given; repairing details not meeting
the workers expectationeven though
the customer did not consider it a priority and
there would be no extra pay. In short, an
artist.
Whats more is that I realize now, that I
was not only wrong, but perhaps arrogantly so,
in my assumption that the only real career happened
behind a desk and involved a computer or college
degree. These guys really had it all
working creatively, making good money, leaving
someplace better than when they found it. Yep.
No doubt about it, these guys loved their jobs.
Did they ever experience problems? Bad days?
Sure. There seemed to be a good amount of
supplies not delivered and bad weather and the
occasional sinus headache complaint.. But
these tid bits of irritation shared with me came
with a decided lack of blame, pouting, back-stabbing
or idleness. Hmmm.
So are there components to determining if you
are in the right careerbe it doctor, lawyer
or house painter? And if so, do these components
provide the answer to this age-old question, no
matter what your profession? I believe so.
Who am I? Why, I am someone who loves what
she does, works about ten hours a week, stays
home with her kid in her much-loved home and makes
the same amount of money a year that she did when
working over 60 hours a week.
Through countless hours of career counseling,
developing and delivering workshops, and of course
my epiphany during the construction in my home,
I have determined some important aspects to any
career that you must be experiencing regularly
to avoid burn-out and perpetual unhappiness.
And since you are busy, and need to get back to
work, let me get right to it. A person who
is in the right career regularly:
Experiences the Zone. Ever
lose all track of time at your joband leave
invigorated? Do people ever swing by your
office to talk about something usually important
to you, like sports or the latest gossip, and
you barely look up to make eye contact?
Chances are you were in the zone.
You were loving your work. Yea ! This
just doesnt happen to those that are not
suited to their work.
I really want to give you a classic example at
this point of a job that does not lend itself
to zone, like stamp lickers,
but after my screened-in porch experience, I have
decided to keep a tad bit of humbleness in my
assumptions about others choices.
Let me just say this: I have been a stamp
licker in the past and stared holes into the wall
clock until it registered 5:01pm and then flew
out of the office; and I have recently licked
a few stamps trying to generate more sales of
my latest book, and found myself in the
zone. Clearly title, task and money
are not zone predictors.
Creates Original Output.
Are you regularly generating ideas or outlines
or sketches that no one else has ever done? And
not just a once in a while thing,
but on a regular basis? How about unique
ways to organize? Or coming-up with unheard of
solutions for team building? Maybe you have
created a solution to something determined to
be too expensive and found an answer that cost
a shoestring? You are definitely
sounding like a person who is on the right track.
What? Your job doesnt have the type
of situations that allow for original output?
Guess what? They all do.
Works Without CompensationGladly.
Remember my house contractor who repaired little
details? Things like weather stripping color
and a small crack in a piece of wood were important
to him though I, the customer, could have cared
less. He came back out and repaired these
items on his own time, with no compensation.
He knew I loved the porch. I even told him
I thought the final product was worth much more
than was spent (of course this was long after
the check had been written and cashed!).
So what was his motivation? The same as
anyone in the right career: a job well done
is its own reward. Ok. So that wasnt
original output
but my point is made.
Knows That the Grunt Leads to the Gold.
People in the right career are all the things
we are told we should be: persistent,
working long hours, avoiding the office gossip
break. But when others comment on these
qualities, on the long-suffering traits of this
worker, instead of feeling superior or finally
acknowledged, the person on the right career path
finds these behaviors surprisingly easy to accomplish.
In fact, this person will be more than happy to
share their methods with us. There is little
competition, because this person knows each contribution
is unique and that there is plenty of gold
for everyone.
Leaves the World Better Than They Found
It. If this one means nothing to
you or you are unsure if you are doing this, then
its time for some soul searching.
What about those that know exactly what I am talking
about? Just keep doing what youre
doing. And thank you.
About the Author:
Stephanie Goddard Davidson is a nationally recognized
speaker and certified trainer in such popular
programs as "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective
People"; "People Skills for Managers
and Individual Contributors"; Franklin Covey's
"First Things First Time Management";
and master certified for all Zenger Miller/Achieve
Global management development programs. To read
more articles written by Stephanie, visit http://101waysatwork.com.
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